The first dance by the married couple is a special moment for all people. The formal rite is done, a tasty meal has been consumed, and it's now time for the dancing partying. Generally, the newly married couple is extremely happy, but extremely nervous about this first dance.
Unless the couple is very extroverted, relish the concept of being the center of attention, or really, really good at dancing, the newly married couple is likely to be anxious about the first dance. While you would like to dance with your better half, dancing in front of a group of people isn't simple. All eyes are on you. Will you make a mistake that people will spot? Will something go wrong?
Here's the scoop though, the fantastic thing about the first dance for your guests is not essentially your dance. Of course, the guests will gather around in enthusiastic anticipation. Nevertheless, if you were to look around, you would see the couples holding hands, drinking in the music, and remembering about their first dance at their wedding. They're going to think about the love they have for their partner and the love that the recently married couple has. They are going to think about how your life will be going forward and wishing you the bliss that they've had in their own marriage. It's a beautiful reminiscent moment for all present.
Will they be scrutinizing each of your step? No. Will they spot if something "goes wrong"? Probably not.
Should you be tense? You shouldn't. You need to pick a wedding first dance song that's special to you and your other half. You must dance the dance that you would love to dance and remember. While the dance is happening, you must have eyes only for your other half and relish in this most special moment for both of you. And, when you go to your next friend's wedding, you'll be in the crowd, reminiscing about your own special first dance while wishing them the best in life.
Unless the couple is very extroverted, relish the concept of being the center of attention, or really, really good at dancing, the newly married couple is likely to be anxious about the first dance. While you would like to dance with your better half, dancing in front of a group of people isn't simple. All eyes are on you. Will you make a mistake that people will spot? Will something go wrong?
Here's the scoop though, the fantastic thing about the first dance for your guests is not essentially your dance. Of course, the guests will gather around in enthusiastic anticipation. Nevertheless, if you were to look around, you would see the couples holding hands, drinking in the music, and remembering about their first dance at their wedding. They're going to think about the love they have for their partner and the love that the recently married couple has. They are going to think about how your life will be going forward and wishing you the bliss that they've had in their own marriage. It's a beautiful reminiscent moment for all present.
Will they be scrutinizing each of your step? No. Will they spot if something "goes wrong"? Probably not.
Should you be tense? You shouldn't. You need to pick a wedding first dance song that's special to you and your other half. You must dance the dance that you would love to dance and remember. While the dance is happening, you must have eyes only for your other half and relish in this most special moment for both of you. And, when you go to your next friend's wedding, you'll be in the crowd, reminiscing about your own special first dance while wishing them the best in life.
About the Author:
Susan Todd writes about wedding dance songs that couples can play on their wedding day's first dance and in the father-daughter and mother-son dances. Her website provides reviews on first dance wedding songs that will surely make a recently married couple's first dance really wonderful and romantic.
